Wedding Cost Calculator

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Wedding pages usually start with a national average. This one does not, and the reason is not modesty: an average wedding cost is a number nobody actually spends. The guest count, the city, the season and the day of the week move a budget further than any other four decisions a couple makes, and a national figure knows none of them. What this page does instead is take the plan you already have and price it line by line.

The number you are actually inviting, not the number you would like to invite.

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Food, service and staff, from the quote you have.

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Bar, wine with dinner and toasts. A cash bar moves this to the guest, and the bill with it.

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The venue fee on the contract, before service charge and tax.

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The photography and video package total.

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Dress, suit, alterations, hair and makeup.

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Bouquets, centerpieces and installations from the florist quote.

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Band, DJ and any sound or lighting hire.

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Invitations, save-the-dates, menus and postage.

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Both wedding bands, from the jeweller quote.

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Transport for the couple and guests, plus hotel nights you are paying for.

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Cake, favors, license, hotel nights, hair trials, the small things that add up.

Charged on the catering, the bar and the venue, which is how most venues write it into the contract.

The pad for the guest who brings a plus-one and the booking that costs more than quoted. Keep some.

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Total wedding budget

$38,955

For 100 guests, about $390 a head — of which the guest list controls 36%.

Catering and bar
$12,000 the part the guest count sets
Booked items
$23,100 the same whatever the guest count
Service charge and contingency
$3,855
One more guest costs
$138.60 catering, bar, service charge and contingency

Where the money goes

  • Catering$8,500.00
  • Drinks and bar$3,500.00
  • Venue rental$8,000.00
  • Everything else booked$15,100.00
  • Service charge$2,000.00
  • Contingency$1,855.00

The two guest-driven slices are the pair a guest list can change; the venue, the bookings, the service charge and the contingency are the shape most budgets are actually locked into.

Line by line

ItemAmountPer guestMoves with the guest list
Catering$8,500$85yes
Drinks and bar$3,500$35yes
Venue rental$8,000$80no
Photography and video$3,500$35no
Attire and beauty$2,500$25no
Flowers and decor$2,000$20no
Music and entertainment$1,800$18no
Stationery and printing$900$9no
Rings$2,200$22no
Transport and lodging$1,200$12no
Everything else$1,000$10no
Service charge at 10 percent$2,000$20no
Contingency at 5 percent$1,855$19no

Add it up and you get $38,955: catering, drinks, the booked items, a 10% service charge on the catering, the bar and the venue, and a 5% contingency on the lot.

The same plan at other guest counts

GuestsCatering and barBooked itemsService chargeContingencyTotalPer guest
50$6,000$23,100$1,400$1,525$32,025$641
75$9,000$23,100$1,700$1,690$35,490$473
100$12,000$23,100$2,000$1,855$38,955$390
125$15,000$23,100$2,300$2,020$42,420$339
150$18,000$23,100$2,600$2,185$45,885$306
200$24,000$23,100$3,200$2,515$52,815$264

Only the guest-driven part, the service charge on it and the contingency move; the booked items stay where they are. The last column is the one that falls as the list grows — and the reason a bigger wedding can feel like better value while costing a great deal more.

What each change takes off the total

ChangeRemoved from the budget
Ten fewer guests$1,386
Drop the contingency$1,855
Trim the booked items by 10 percent$2,510

These are alternatives rather than additions: cutting ten guests and trimming the bookings work on different parts of the same budget. The cheapest change is always the one made before a deposit.

What this page does not do is print an average. Every national average wedding cost is a number nobody actually spends — the guest count, the city, the season and the day of the week move a budget more than anything else a couple decides, and only your own quotes know them. Also outside the arithmetic: sales tax, which many contracts charge on the service charge as well as on the food, the state rules on who may serve alcohol, vendor tips, the honeymoon, and any money the couple expects to be given. Counting on the gifts to pay for the wedding is how a budget that balanced on paper stops balancing in the last month.

Every figure is yours: what the venue charges, what the caterer quoted per head, what the bar costs, and the guests you are actually inviting rather than the number you would like to invite. From there the page answers three questions the plan cannot answer on its own — what one more guest adds, how much of the budget the guest list controls, and what the same wedding costs at five other guest counts.

About this wedding cost calculator

Invite fewer people and the budget falls further than almost any other decision a couple makes: catering, drinks and the service charge on them scale with the guest list, while the venue, the photographer and the flowers do not. This page prices the plan you already have rather than a national average.

The arithmetic comes from the quotes you enter, not survey data: catering and drinks are priced per guest, the service charge is applied to catering, drinks and venue rental, and the contingency pads the subtotal. Every figure is computed client-side in the browser, so no guest names, quotes or totals are uploaded anywhere.

Sales tax on the service charge, state alcohol rules, vendor gratuities beyond the service charge, the honeymoon, rings beyond the figure entered and any gifts the couple expects to receive sit outside the model. An estimate, not financial advice; your lender's Loan Estimate overrides it. Price the guest list before you book a venue, and treat a contingency that survives as money well spent.

How this wedding cost calculator works

Two kinds of line, and they behave differently

Catering and drinks scale with the guest list: they are a price per head, so their total is the price times the guests. Everything else — the venue, the photographer, the flowers, the music, the rings, the transport — is booked for a date rather than for a number of people, so it stays where it is however many guests come. The page separates the two, because that separation is the whole shape of a wedding budget.

On top of the goods comes the service charge, which venues and caterers normally charge on the food, the bar and often the room hire. This page applies it to catering, drinks and the venue rental. Then a contingency is applied to everything: that line is not a fee, it is the pad for the plus-one who was not on the list and the booking that costs more than it was quoted at.

What one more guest costs

The marginal guest is the number to know before a guest list gets longer: the catering and the drinks per head, plus the service charge on them, plus the contingency. On the sample plan on this page that is $120 of food and drink turning into about $139 of budget — so ten guests are about $1,390, and forty guests are more than $5,500.

It works the other way, too, which is where the honesty of a budget lies: the same $139 is what a couple saves for each guest they do not invite. That is why the guest list, not the flowers, decides what most weddings cost.

Why the cost per guest falls as the list grows

The booked items are spread over more people as the guest count rises, so the per-guest figure falls even though the total rises. A hundred guests at the sample plan come to about $390 a head; two hundred come to about $264 a head. That is arithmetic, not a reason to invite more people — two hundred guests cost about $13,900 more in total than a hundred, whatever the per-head figure does.

The lever table on the page prices the changes a couple can actually make: ten fewer guests, dropping the contingency, and trimming the booked items by ten percent. They are alternatives rather than additions, and the cheapest change is always the one made before a deposit is paid.

Where the budget bends, and where it does not

The per-guest figure falls as the list grows because the two halves of the budget are built differently: catering and drinks keep a fixed price per head and grow with every guest, while the booked items stay where they are and get spread across more people. The arithmetic is the shape of the budget, not a reason to invite more people — the total still rises with every head, so a lower per-guest number and a higher bill arrive together.

What a couple can bend, in practice, is the guest list and the contingency. Each guest adds the marginal cost — the catering and drinks per head, plus the service charge and the contingency on them — so the cheapest change is usually the list itself, and the contingency is a pad that can be trimmed once the plan firms up. The booked items bend only when a vendor is re-quoted rather than when the list changes, which is why this page prices every lever in the same units as the budget and lets each change be tested before a deposit is paid.

Worked examples

Each example below was run through the calculator on this page when the site was built, so the numbers match what you see when you enter the same inputs.

A hundred guests with a $85 catering quote and a $35 bar

Guests: 100 · Catering per guest: $85.00 · Drinks per guest: $35.00 · Venue rental: $8,000.00 · Photography and video: $3,500.00 · Attire and beauty: $2,500.00 · Flowers and decor: $2,000.00 · Music and entertainment: $1,800.00 · Stationery and printing: $900.00 · Rings: $2,200.00 · Transport and lodging: $1,200.00 · Everything else: $1,000.00 · Service charge or tip: 10% · Contingency: 5%

Total wedding budget

$38,955

For 100 guests, about $390 a head — of which the guest list controls 36%.

Catering and bar: $12,000 · Booked items: $23,100 · Service charge and contingency: $3,855 · One more guest costs: $138.60

The sample plan: about $38,955, of which the guest list controls a little over a third.

The same plan with fifty fewer guests

Guests: 50 · Catering per guest: $85.00 · Drinks per guest: $35.00 · Venue rental: $8,000.00 · Photography and video: $3,500.00 · Attire and beauty: $2,500.00 · Flowers and decor: $2,000.00 · Music and entertainment: $1,800.00 · Stationery and printing: $900.00 · Rings: $2,200.00 · Transport and lodging: $1,200.00 · Everything else: $1,000.00 · Service charge or tip: 10% · Contingency: 5%

Total wedding budget

$32,025

For 50 guests, about $641 a head — of which the guest list controls 22%.

Catering and bar: $6,000 · Booked items: $23,100 · Service charge and contingency: $2,925 · One more guest costs: $138.60

Fifty guests fewer takes about $6,930 off the budget and pushes the cost per guest up to about $641 — the booked items now have half as many people to spread across.

A smaller venue and a trimmed list

Guests: 75 · Catering per guest: $70.00 · Drinks per guest: $25.00 · Venue rental: $4,000.00 · Photography and video: $2,500.00 · Attire and beauty: $1,500.00 · Flowers and decor: $1,000.00 · Music and entertainment: $1,200.00 · Stationery and printing: $500.00 · Rings: $1,500.00 · Transport and lodging: $600.00 · Everything else: $800.00 · Service charge or tip: 10% · Contingency: 5%

Total wedding budget

$22,929

For 75 guests, about $306 a head — of which the guest list controls 36%.

Catering and bar: $7,125 · Booked items: $13,600 · Service charge and contingency: $2,204 · One more guest costs: $109.73

Cutting both halves of the budget at once: fewer guests and cheaper bookings. Neither change is a compromise in the arithmetic, only in the plan.

Two hundred guests with the contingency raised to 10%

Guests: 200 · Catering per guest: $85.00 · Drinks per guest: $35.00 · Venue rental: $8,000.00 · Photography and video: $3,500.00 · Attire and beauty: $2,500.00 · Flowers and decor: $2,000.00 · Music and entertainment: $1,800.00 · Stationery and printing: $900.00 · Rings: $2,200.00 · Transport and lodging: $1,200.00 · Everything else: $1,000.00 · Service charge or tip: 10% · Contingency: 10%

Total wedding budget

$55,330

For 200 guests, about $277 a head — of which the guest list controls 52%.

Catering and bar: $24,000 · Booked items: $23,100 · Service charge and contingency: $8,230 · One more guest costs: $145.20

Doubling the list to 200 while the contingency rises to 10%: the total climbs to about $55,330 while the per-head figure falls to about $277, and the larger contingency pad alone is about $5,030 — the two levers moving in opposite directions at once.

Frequently asked questions

What does an average wedding cost?

Industry surveys publish a national average every year, and this page deliberately prints none of them. An average across the whole country mixes a courthouse lunch with a hotel ballroom, and it describes neither: what a wedding costs is decided by the guest count, the city, the season and the day of the week, and by whether the couple is paying for the food or the guests are buying their own drinks. Put your own quotes in above and the budget will be about your wedding rather than about everyone else’s.

What is the cheapest way to cut a wedding budget?

The guest list, and before any deposits are paid. Each guest costs the catering and the drinks per head plus the service charge on them plus the contingency — about $139 on the sample plan on this page — and the page shows the same plan at five other guest counts. After that, the contingency is a lever (it is a pad, not a fee) and the booked items are worth re-quoting, because photographers and florists price by the date and the package rather than by the hour.

Is a cash bar really cheaper?

On the budget line, yes: the drinks per head go to zero and the total drops by the bar cost plus the service charge and contingency on it. Two things are worth saying honestly about it. The rules on who may serve alcohol, and whether a licensed bartender is required, are set by the state and sometimes by the venue’s license, so a cash bar can be a legal question rather than a financial one. And guests often drink less when they are paying, which reduces the bar bill but also changes the party. This page prices the money; the rest is a choice.

How big should the contingency be?

This page defaults to 5 percent, and it is one of the two levers that can be pulled back if the total comes out higher than the couple wants to spend. What it is for: the guest who brings someone, the vendor who adds a travel fee, the dress that needs altering twice, the bar tab that runs over. A contingency that survives the wedding is not wasted money — it is the difference between a budget that held and a credit card balance in the first month of married life.

What does the service charge actually cover?

It is the venue’s or the caterer’s charge for staff, setup, service and often the tip pool, and it is normally applied to the food, the drinks and the room hire rather than to the florist or the photographer. Two things to check in the contract: whether sales tax is charged on the service charge as well as on the food (many contracts do both), and whether the service charge is described as a tip or as an administrative charge — if it is administrative, staff may expect a gratuity on top. This page models the percentage on catering, drinks and venue rental, which is the common shape.

Why does the cost per guest fall when we invite more people?

Because the booked items do not grow with the guest list: the photographer, the band and the venue cost the same whether 50 or 200 people watch and listen, so spreading them over more guests lowers the per-head figure. The total still rises by about $139 for every extra guest. Per-head cost is useful for comparing two plans; it is a poor reason to invite more people.

Should we count on gifts to pay for the wedding?

The page does not model gifts, and that is deliberate. Wedding gifts are real, but they arrive after the bills and their size is not something a couple controls; a budget that only balances if the envelopes are large is a budget that has already failed. Price the wedding as though nothing were coming back, and treat anything that does arrive as the start of married life rather than as a rebate.

Are the numbers I put in here sent anywhere at all?

They are not. The guest count, the quotes and the totals you type are used by the browser-side arithmetic alone, with no request sent and no upload endpoint on the page to send them to. If a network call ever appeared in a calculator page, an automated release check would block it - that check is what makes the promise stick.

Assumptions and sources

  • This page publishes no survey data and prints no average, by design. Every figure in the budget is the visitor’s own quote, and the page says so rather than dressing an average up as an answer.
  • The arithmetic: catering and drinks are priced per guest; the service charge is applied to catering, drinks and venue rental, which is the shape a typical venue contract uses; the contingency is applied to the subtotal. The guest counts compared are 50, 75, 100, 125, 150 and 200.
  • The lever table prices three changes in the same units as the budget: ten fewer guests at the marginal guest cost, the contingency removed, and the booked items trimmed by 10 percent plus the service charge that falls with the venue rental.
  • Not modelled here: sales tax on the service charge, state rules on serving alcohol, vendor gratuities beyond the service charge, the honeymoon, rings beyond the figure typed in, and any gifts the couple expects to receive.

Last reviewed 2026-09-20. An estimate, not financial advice; your lender's Loan Estimate overrides it. Read the full disclaimer.

Where a figure on this page comes from an official agency — HUD, IRS, FICO or a state body — the site keeps a dated snapshot of the source page in its sources library, and a scheduled job re-checks that snapshot, so the number can be traced back to the document it came from.